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A Conversation with Yolanda
King
(The complete Flip interview, with only minor edits,
not found in the book)
Yolanda King (www.yolanda-king.com),
founder and CEO of Higher Ground Productions, is an
amazing and dynamic voice among twenty-first century
speakers. The first-born daughter of Coretta Scott
King and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr., Yolanda has
a mission to encourage personal growth and positive
social change through her artistic endeavors, including
acting, producing, speaking, and teaching. It is Ms.
King’s passion for peace and positive change
that prompted her vision for founding Higher Ground
Productions, an organization dedicated to teaching
people to celebrate diversity and embrace unity through
the arts.
With her father being one of the major lights of
modern civilization, one naturally wonders if Yolanda
feels an obligation to extend his legacy. “I
have felt a calling for as long as I can remember,”
she affirms. “When you grow up in an environment
where there is a commitment to service, to making
a difference and helping others – a commitment
that is not only just talked about, but is actually
lived in front of you – it naturally takes root
in your life. I see it in all my siblings, not just
me. We had the opportunity to see that commitment
lived so purely and so passionately, both in my father
and mother.
“They say the best sermons are the ones that
are lived. My father not only talked the talk, and
did a really great job of that, he also walked the
talk and so did my grandparents, on both sides. So
there was this ancestral energy that resulted in my
feeling a very strong responsibility. So I’ve
spent a great deal of my life trying to carve out
a place for myself in this awesome legacy and make
a difference on my own.”
Since no one can simply imitate the legacy of their
famous forebears, how did Yolanda find her own special
means of contributing? “I took the long road
to get to where I am,” Yolanda reveals. “Interestingly
enough, I’m working on a book now that’s
called Embracing Your Power in Thirty Days. But it
took me almost thirty years to get there! I’m
showing people a process that will minimize their
wandering around in the wilderness like I did.
“I’ve wanted to be an actress since was
eight. That was the first burning desire in my spirit,
to perform. And I started doing theater at a very
young age. But I got sidetracked because I thought
that it was not significant enough. I thought it was
a very self-centered profession and I could not see
how I could make a difference in that way. So I tried
to do other things even though I was acting at the
same time. I had a theater company and we ran around
the country doing work that was touching the lives
of young people. But because I was trying to figure
out a way to combine this huge calling to make a difference
with this passion to perform, I did a lot of other
things trying to find myself. At one time I had three
full time jobs – which is impossible!
“The point is that it took me a while to realize
that I could do both – that I could utilize
my art and my gift, and that I could use that gift
to uplift and to edutain, as I call it – blend
education and entertainment. I realized that I could
be true to this calling. And my gracious, what peace
I have had since I’ve been able to reconcile
that within my spirit!”
Yolanda’s experience made us wonder which comes
first: a personal or social inspiration? “It’s
really a blending,” she says. “I feel
strongly that you can’t stand up for anything
else unless you have learned to stand up for yourself
in an honest, authentic way. If you’re not true
to yourself, if you’re not clear about who you
are and what your purpose is and what your unique
gift is to the planet, then there’s only so
much that you’re going to be able to give to
the world. So I try to help people understand that
they have a light, that they are significant, that
they are a part of this incredible whole. We come
from the same source. Each and every last one of us
has something very special and unique that we bring
to the rest of us. We all have incredible energy for
good and for transformation, if we can only plug into
and accept it… and then consciously develop
and share it with others. It is from that impetus
of peace, passion and purpose that people begin to
look at what’s happening in their home, their
workplace, their community, and on this planet. I
believe if you are clear about who you are, you can
be a wonderful light for the world. Everywhere you
go, that sense of clarity, that sense of conviction,
reverberates.
“On the other hand, I think it’s pretty
difficult to be a true light on this planet and not
be engaged in service in some way. Once you have awakened
to what your own potential is, I can’t imagine
that you would not want to share that. It doesn’t
have to be in the way of conventional activism, like
marching and petitioning, even though those methods
are incredibly important. Activism can look very different
for everyone, but there is no way that you can be
in that place of change in your own life and not want
to effect change in other places.
“Now, there are those, of course, who are on
the high spiritual path, that go to caves and into
monasteries, and that’s what they do and that’s
fine. But I can’t imagine it. That’s not
the tradition that I come from. I come from a tradition
that’s spiritual and visionary, but deeply activist.
“People often ask me, ‘What is it like
being the daughter of…’ and I say, ‘It’s
an incredible, awesome blessing and a tremendous responsibility.’
At one point in my life, I felt so inadequate to all
of that – the hunger, the demand, the expectations
and assumptions. I just felt smothered and burdened.
I was like a dog chasing its tail, trying to support
this, and be a part of that, and getting nowhere fast.
That’s why we have to be very clear about who
we are. I believe that is our first responsibility,
because we really can’t be effective if we aren’t.
Our potential is so diminished when we’re floundering
around uncertain of who we are and the power that
we have, whereas self-knowledge allows us to select
the opportunities where we can make a unique contribution
– those that are in alignment with our mission
and abilities.”
What is Yolanda’s dream for the evolution of
humanity? “My dream would be the worldwide realization
that each and every one of us is one. We are so vitally
connected that we are like pieces of an incredible
puzzle. We are all together breathing this one breath.
My dream is that once we realize that, we would understand
that if I hurt or harm you, I’m destroying a
piece of myself. I can’t do that because it
would be like cutting off my knees or tearing out
my heart! When we realize that, and I believe that
we will, there will be peace. That would be my dream
for the evolution of humanity – universal recognition
of our oneness.
“I believe that we create what shows up in
our lives. We are not victims. This world is not accidental
or coincidental. Mass consciousness has created our
planet, the challenges, the problems – all of
it. And each of us has a responsibility to, in our
own way, transform our thinking and move that consciousness
forward.”
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